THE PERCEPTION WE HAVE ABOUT DATING.
THE PERCEPTION WE HAVE ABOUT DATING.
Is dating a crime? What makes it a crime? These are the two questions I have always asked myself since youthful age, when I hear the matured people talking badly about it, I turn to get angry. Let me ask this question which goes to the matured, Did non of you matured people enter into relationships when you were young? If any of them will be very bold to say they didn't go into any relationship before they got married, I will also be very bold to say they are lairs. In fact a BIG ONE.
They have all been part of the train that sounds at youthful age but now they have all turn a bad ambassador of dating. The matured can never prevent the youth from dating, just because they won't be with them when they almost have their life at the secondary level of their academics, of which they will be well fed with stuffs of dating from their peers.
I then pose this question to them that, why don't they, be a good ambassador of dating, by telling their wards that, dating as they have always heard about it is not a crime but the things that is involved can make it a crime. Moreover telling the youth that, one may enter into a relationship just because of SEX and that shouldn't be the priority/ aim of it. Dating as I understand is the relationship between two sex to study themselves and know each other's flaws and strength in other to understand their personalities which may led them to marriage. Analyzing the definition I gave to dating, there is a clue in it which doesn't seem clear in the contest but I want to place more emphasis on it. The clue is, dating as it is sound can expire or can't be expired due to some conditions that may surrounds it.
It may expire because every date that is been set approach and pass by and may not expire because each soul which is involved in it accepts the consequences which prolongs it expiring date.
I will then conclude here by advising the matured that they should rather advise their wards of the risks in it but not totally avoiding their child from dating.
An advise goes to the youth too, that is they shouldn't enter into relationship just because everyone is in or because the could certified their sexual needs. That's totally wrong.
Is dating a crime? What makes it a crime? These are the two questions I have always asked myself since youthful age, when I hear the matured people talking badly about it, I turn to get angry. Let me ask this question which goes to the matured, Did non of you matured people enter into relationships when you were young? If any of them will be very bold to say they didn't go into any relationship before they got married, I will also be very bold to say they are lairs. In fact a BIG ONE.
They have all been part of the train that sounds at youthful age but now they have all turn a bad ambassador of dating. The matured can never prevent the youth from dating, just because they won't be with them when they almost have their life at the secondary level of their academics, of which they will be well fed with stuffs of dating from their peers.
I then pose this question to them that, why don't they, be a good ambassador of dating, by telling their wards that, dating as they have always heard about it is not a crime but the things that is involved can make it a crime. Moreover telling the youth that, one may enter into a relationship just because of SEX and that shouldn't be the priority/ aim of it. Dating as I understand is the relationship between two sex to study themselves and know each other's flaws and strength in other to understand their personalities which may led them to marriage. Analyzing the definition I gave to dating, there is a clue in it which doesn't seem clear in the contest but I want to place more emphasis on it. The clue is, dating as it is sound can expire or can't be expired due to some conditions that may surrounds it.
It may expire because every date that is been set approach and pass by and may not expire because each soul which is involved in it accepts the consequences which prolongs it expiring date.
I will then conclude here by advising the matured that they should rather advise their wards of the risks in it but not totally avoiding their child from dating.
An advise goes to the youth too, that is they shouldn't enter into relationship just because everyone is in or because the could certified their sexual needs. That's totally wrong.