NOBODY KNOWS WHEN THE LAST GOODBYE IS.

NOBODY KNOWS WHEN THE LAST GOODBYE IS.

 

During mourning in my part of the world  you will see many woman and men gathered together in black and sometimes red, weeping  and screaming along side. 

Is very awful and very disheartening when the balls on your face sees it. It triggers the internal emotion which solvate itself from the other emotions and sometimes you feel like crying too. 

If I may ask, did the dead always  say a goodbye to the people he or she loved most? Do the dead knows is their final breath? Do the dead knew is a forever bye to the world of date? These questions keeps on jogging in my mind. 

I had an encounter with one man who lost his spouse and had cried for many hours. And through his crying, he uttered some words that raised many brows in my thought.

 The words were, why didn't you wait, I knew it was never true, why that goodbye message, you should have told  me in person, why do you make thou descend on me.. 

He kept on saying strange words as he got me scared but my inquisitiveness  never push me away from hearing the statements. The utterance that is still sounding a bell in my mind is, ''why that goodbye message, you should have told  me in person''. 

This is really STRANGE, does it mean her spouse said a goodbye and did she knew she is going to die? This was the question I asked myself and I couldn't sit down for this dicey situation to take over me and my mind. So I took a bold step and made enquires of it. 

Through my findings, one lady told me a story of hers which supported what I heard, her narrative was, her husband had travelled and she knew he will coming very soon but not knowing the traveling was a goodbye to her and her kids. She said; a day before my husband death was a message saying '' twice bitten once shy , bye forever''  this was the SMS she got.  

This clearly says some people do know they will die and  do say a goodbye but the once they say goodbye to never believe until he/she pass away, then they realize the dead mean the goodbye. The other perspective is, some don't know, the dead take them by surprise so they can't say a goodbye to the once they formed bond with when they came to this world. 

I then concluded that everyone in our live don't know when they will die, so we should be loving and caring in other to leave an iota of impression of goodbye, when they leave our side because no one knows the next moment.